Hawaiʻi is a special place — different from anywhere else in the United States. If I could have done one thing differently before my first visit to Oʻahu, I would have read up on how Hawaiʻi became a U.S. state first. I would have also learned more about traditional Hawaiian culture and customs. That context makes all the difference in how you experience the people and places of the island. You’ll learn that aloha is not simply "hello" and "goodbye" in Hawaiian, it is a way of life, one that honors and considers everyone and everything, including the land, sky and ocean.
When planning your trip, always factor in travel time and the time difference. The closest flights are still five hours away, and Hawaiʻi runs two to three hours behind the U.S. West Coast — meaning you could lose the better part of two days just getting there and back. Give yourself time to arrive, adjust and relax before heading home. I always recommend staying at least a week.
One thing to keep in mind about O’ahu is the traffic. This is the most heavily populated and visited island in Hawaiʻi and our streets and highways reflect that. Sometimes it takes 45 minutes to drive back to Waikīkī from the North Shore and sometimes it takes almost three hours. It all depends on the time of day and day of week, the weather and if there was an accident, so always make plans with a buffer of time for traffic. Regardless of where you stay, make a point of venturing beyond that area. From diverse Honolulu neighborhoods, relaxing beach towns along the coast and fertile farmlands spread throughout, there is a whole island worth exploring outside of your hotel.